Sometimes, our life intent on forcing us to confront certain elements of life that we might rather not face. Then again, life has to go on no matter what. We need to learn how to handle the transformation of our lives through tragedies and sufferings. When we can delve deeper into our own psyche, it will lead us to examine our own perspectives on life, loneliness, and liberty to cope with existence.

One of the most important learnings I’ve had recently is, Control is frequently an illusion. So, it’s better to develop emotional intelligence to live with pain, suffering, and uncontrollable things.

And what’s my take on coping with loss and built new life again? A Belgian sludge metal song named ‘A Solitary Reign’

Lyrics

I see distance in your eyes
Bury me
To sleep tonight
Your touch divine
I saw distance in your eyes

He came to claim
What was his
And for years I lived
A solitary reign retraced
My steps to your embrace
I wanted you to stay
Yet you died away

Your touch divides
I see distance in
In your eyes
Please sing me to sleep tonight

And for years I lived
A solitary reign
Your touch divine
The distance in your eyes

You reside in me
The sacrifice

Like blood seeping through
Your old wounds
I am your old wound
You took your leave

Torn from you
Inside of you
Torn from you
Inside of you

The most beautiful eyes I could look into
I now see…

YouTube Link- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CD7bxyzFbC4

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